How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 01:34
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Ask yourself:
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What do you like the most about black people?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Any straight men had a gay experience in the past? What was it and how did you feel?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Why has my ex moved on so fast after years of being together with me?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Why does my girlfriend keep asking me if I love her?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Have you ever seen your wife being fucked?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Isn’t freedom of speech and expression an absolute right?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How does gut health affect mental well-being?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What is the story behind bhai dooj?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
That's it for today.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Making more friends is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.